Friday, 5 April 2013

Settling into KAIST dormitory

Greetings!

This will be a post about my dormitory, called Narae Hall! (나래관)

It is currently the newest hall in KAIST (another new one is coming up soon). It has 2 buildings, one has much more floors than the other. So actually it consists of a male dorm (Mir hall) and a female dorm (Narae). People combine the words and call it Mirae Hall! Guess which hall has more floors? Mir, of course! This is a science & tech university, after all.

The basement has a dry cleaning shop and a convenience store. The convenience store opens at night from 6pm-2am on Sundays to Fridays. I don't quite agree with its opening hours, I think it should open all day and all night! I've yet to try the dry cleaning shop..

The first floor is the entrance to the dorms. It has an area for placing delivered parcels. It gets quite messy because many parcels arrive and accumulate there.

The second floor has a gym shared by both halls. Every night, the gym is packed with people. Typically, I would see one or two girls cycling slowly, a few bodybuilders working the weights, and some people walking/running on the treadmills. Its better to go in the daytime when it is almost empty.

The room I'm staying in is a double room. Which means that I, for the first time in my life, am staying with a room mate! Back home, Sheares Hall has only single rooms. They call Narae hall rooms studio apartments because it has a private sink, bathroom and toilet. Its still a tiny room, in my opinion. The room has heated flooring so I never have to bear any cold at all.

A fun part of having cold weather is that I can keep my food and drinks chilled just by placing them outside the window! But over the weeks, the temperature range went from -5 ~ 5 degrees to 0 ~ 20 degrees celsius. Now food would spoil if left out there in the sun.

On my floor, there is a lounge with a TV, microwave oven and water dispenser. There's also 3 study rooms (exclusive to my floor only!) On other alternate floors, there are laundry rooms with 2 washers and 1 dryer each.

So how's the hall culture here?

There's absolutely no interaction between the hall residents here, to my disappointment. The doors are all closed and people avoid each other's eyes as they cross paths. But there are tons of posters pasted everywhere publicising school-wide events. And yes, they are all in Korean, so international students are excluded.

How's living with a room mate?

Back in sheares hall, I'd blast my speakers with blood pumping beats while studying, but I wouldn't do that here. Restricted to my ear phones now! I'd mop and sweep the floor every week, occasionally change some decor. I'd answer calls in my room, but now in here I'd rush out of the room to take a call/skype. What's acceptable and what's not acceptable when sharing a room with another person? Is it rude to talk on the phone even if your room mate doesn't understand your language?  Who should pay for the shared items, like dustbin, toilet paper etc? Anyone might say: just communicate with your room mate! But communication takes more effort here because no one really knows the Singlish accent around here.
Is it ok to sleep before/after your room mate and should the lights be turned on or off? Where can I place my toiletries? These are all things I never had to deal with in the 2.5 years of living in Sheares hall.

I must say that I'm very grateful for Sheares' single rooms now. Though there are awesome things about Narae hall, but I'll take Sheares anytime.

Maybe I'll add some photos to this post. But not now.

Wednesday, 20 March 2013

They said goodbye and we'll see you again in 4 months

22nd Feb, 10.30pm Korean Air flight to Incheon Airport

Falling on a friday night, I assume many people would have their friday night plans going on. I didn't want to disrupt anyone's plans, so I didn't tell anyone my flight details unless they asked.

And slowly as the day drew nearer, more and more of my friends contacted me to ask for my flight details. I was touched to know that they remembered me despite busy school schedules. 

Sammi came to meet up with me at tampines (fish & co) a few days before because she couldn't make it on friday night itself. We talked over delicious fish and chips. It didn't seem like it had already been 3 years + since we graduated from tjc. We just picked up our conversations naturally and time passed so fast.

I met Joyce (my -boss- at Microsoft) just a day before flying off. It was sad to say good bye so soon because I was really enjoying working at Microsoft DPE. I was just starting to get to know the fun folks there and I wish I could contribute a lot more if I could spend more time with them. Really grateful for the eye opening opportunities over the past 6 weeks still.



Now my dearest boyfriend, YJ, knew that he had live firing on saturday and so he had to stay in camp on friday night for a briefing. He said he couldn't send me off. 

We were incredibly emotional about being apart for 4 whole months. Being in army makes it difficult to spend enough time together. We don't know exactly when and what time we can talk to each other. So we treasured every weekend and went shopping and walking around as much as we could. 

Weekends passed. On the last weekend, I bought my koi bubble tea with YJ. He said, "this is the last time we'll drink bubble tea together like this". I couldn't blink away my tears. they came out too furiously.

On friday itself, i kept whatsapping YJ to make sure he wasn't too emo. in the afternoon, i took out a piece of paper and started writing a letter to him. halfway through, my phone rang and it was him! oo and he told me that he left behind a present for me at my gate. i asked him how was it possible and wouldn't it rain on the present? then he said "just go out and see"

And I walked out, grumbling to him that the weather was so hot. I still remember myself looking at the floor, when I heard footsteps and I looked up. He stared right back at me holding his handphone to his ear. Silly him, made me cry the millionth time again. so he managed to surprise me completely and send me off at the airport. God really answered a prayer here. YJ asked me to change my flight but I couldn't. We prayed for a miracle and it happened. We asked and God gave.

Before going to the airport, Pearlyn came to give me present and card from taiwan roomies! glow in the dark stars to keep me company at night (:

At the airport with my dad, I was excited - nervous - dazzled. Jason and Jolene (NUS/Wakeboarding) came first, talked awkwardly but happily. They gave me vit c which helped me tremendously to stay fit and healthy. 

Next lijia and the cell came as a surprise! They shifted cell to sending me off! 



After that, qiqi jeff and the younger cell girls came (: so sweet of them to come after a long day of work/school! they gave me cute presents too :3 hehe! i can't bring them to korea because my bag is bursting! but don't worry, i'll come back and use them!



they all came together to say a prayer for me.

Then finally came yi xian and syjia who barely caught me. sonia and edna couldn't make it though! will miss these two girls so very much. yixian for being spastic and crazy, syjia for her cat (meow) and just talking about anything everything.


YJ, quietly stood nearby with my family watched me from afar. He gave me space and time to spend with all my dear friends who came to send me off.




I handed my passport to the guard, hefted my crazy heavy bag up onto my bag, gave many hugs and off i went.